Sew Ready for Halloween

As per my usual, I’m using the word “sew” pretty loosely. While I was working Tuesday night during the Rangers game, I tweeted: 

I’m feeling like quite the seamstress this evening… Nothing like some crooked hems and applique for the sewing-self-esteem! 


To which one DazeyDuck replied: 

Sewing: A creative mess is better than tidy idleness. 


That is definitely my new sewing mantra. I might not be an exceptional seamstress, but I’ve definitely got the creative mess covered!

Shorts

My first Halloween project was to hem Baby Gray’s shorts for his costume. He is going to be Charlie Brown, who, by the way, has the most awkward fashion sense: yellow and black scribble shirt, black shorts, yellow socks, and brown shoes. Regardless of Charlie Brown’s choices, I was working on getting the replication correct. I have to say I am pretty impressed; I did make Mr. Gray do the cutting since I can’t cut in a straight line. The shorts look much better now that they have been ironed (sorry, no photo of that; and sorry, this is a terrible photo). 

Ghost

Next, I needed to make Baby Gray a shirt for Halloween (of course). I saw this one on Pinterest a while back, and decided to go for it. 

Ghost Close

I didn’t realize it before I did it, but the ghost in my model photo had cut out eyes. It would have had a much cleaner look had I done it that way. Live and learn.

Tuesday, I went on a hunt for the aforementioned yellow socks. I’m not sure where Charlie Brown’s mom shops, but I had quite a time finding yellow socks. 

I checked the all the sock departments at each store I stopped in while on my search. I knew I could modify some if I needed to. Dying socks was suggested several times, and I’m really not sure why I thought sewing them would be a better solution, but I did. Live and learn. 

Yellow Socks

These socks are little girl socks, size 3-5. I decided I would cut them down and make a cuff to attach to the top of a plain white sock. 

Hybrid Socks

I was thinking I’d do something along the lines of this hybrid-looking sock. The more I played with it, though, the more I thought I’d try something a little different. 

Cuff

I just left the cuff by itself. We’ll have a dry run of the costume before he actually wears it Monday, so I can fix them if I need to. Since he doesn’t normally wear socks anyway, I feel like this will be more comfortable for him. It’ll still look like Charlie Brown’s cuffed yellow sock, but it’ll be a pseudo-sock.

Riddle Me This

What’s in the bag? 

S'mores

A hint, perhaps? 

Peep

It’s a traditional favorite with a Halloween twist! I keep saying I don’t like Peeps, but they keep popping up in my cute Halloween ideas. 

Need another hint? 

Hershey's

Remember, it’s a traditional favorite. Two of the three ingredients are shown. 

Last one:

Graham

You’ve got it now, right? 

Yep, it’s a Halloween s’mores kit! Just take one ghost or pumpkin Peep, a half of a graham cracker (broken to be a square, rather than a rectangle), and a miniature Hershey’s bar (the nuggets won’t work as well) and package them all up! 

I would have preferred a clear bag with a ribbon, but I was trying to use what I already had. These bags at least had a little transparency; the Halloween bags I had were full-color. If you try them, I’d love to see a photo! Also, if you actually eat them, I’d love to know how they taste–I made them to give away in goodie baskets.

All Clear

This weekend painted a fabulous picture of what trust in our Heavenly Father should look like. Baby Gray trusted us, kept asking for what he needed, and totally depended on us to take care of him through this crazy weekend–just as we should depend on God to carry us through good times and bad. This is kind of a long post, but it was kind of a long weekend. I’m so grateful we have created a home and an environment that assures Baby Gray we are for him; we want to protect him and care for him.
Saturday morning, Baby Gray woke up with a terrible diaper rash. He doesn’t usually get diaper rash, but this was bad. It was bleeding in a couple of places. When I changed his diaper, he was crying–a terrible, pain-filled cry, so I decided to take him to the pediatrician. 
Of course, since it was Saturday, our regular doctor wasn’t there. Our nurse was there, so that was good. The doctor checked it out; she recommended a clear liquid diet for the rest of Saturday and all of Sunday. She didn’t want anything on its way out to agitate the rash any further.
We made a Target run for some clear liquid necessities before heading home. I loaded up with several flavors of Jello, Gatorade, chicken broth, Propel, Vitamin Water, and Pedialyte. He was laughing and playing in the cart (basket, buggy) at Target as we cruised through the aisles. That was probably the worst part. Aside from diaper changes, he didn’t feel bad, but I couldn’t feed him. 

Target didn’t have the ointment the pediatrician recommended, so Mr. Gray went to CVS on his way home to get it. Luckily, the doctor’s office had a sample, so I had already gooped him up prior to our Target visit. The ointment was previously prescription-only, but now you can get it straight from the pharmacy counter. It’s called Calmoseptine, and our house won’t be without it again. It started clearing the rash up right away. 

We got home at what would normally have been Baby Gray’s lunch time. He ate two servings of Jello and drank a little before giving up on what I was offering. He went to play in good spirits and was fine for the rest of the afternoon. When he started signing for a snack, I offered him Jello again, but he didn’t want any. He refused pretty much everything I offered, except for ice. 

Ice Chips

Water

At dinner, he ate a few bites of Jello and drank a little, but he loved the Pedialyte slushie I made! I blended the clear, unflavored Pedialyte, a little Propel, and water. He ate it right up! He wasn’t big on anything with flavor. All he usually drinks is milk or water, so it was challenging since he couldn’t have milk (and can’t for another day or two).

We opted not to try him at church Sunday; I didn’t want him to see others eating (Mr. Gray and I haven’t eaten in front of him, either) and get upset. When he woke up starving and upset Sunday morning, I was glad we had already made that choice. He ate some frozen chicken broth and Gatorade cubes and drank until he was in a better mood. 

Walking

Pointing

Mr. Gray suggested the park as a distraction, and it worked like a charm! Although, I’m not sure who brought that big boy to play; surely my baby boy isn’t that big already! 

Driving

He loved driving the fire truck. He watched all the birds and squirrels very intently; he even chased one squirrel. When birds would land near him, he would say, “Bur,” like whichever animal it is that does that in the movie Bambi. Too cute!

Swings

Swing Time

He checked out the big kid swings on the swing set (look at that hair, by the way) with Dad for a while. He had a prime viewing spot for birds and squirrels from his swing. 

Train Ride

Finally, it was time for the train to start! He loved the train last time (ahem, someone forgot to blog about the day The Grays went to the park to feed the ducks and ride the train for the first time), so we hoped it would be a great distraction this time. He got a little fussy while we waited for the, “All aboard!” call, but we got a bottle of water to play with drink in the meantime. 

Family Train Time

Once we got going, it was smooth sailing! He looked at all the people and animals. He loves to say, “duck,” in the bathtub, so we got some more practice with that as we chugged around the park. 

Bye, Bye Park

After our ride, we headed back to the truck for a tailgate picnic of Jello, broth, and water. He actually ate the Jello that time, which was good. He snoozed a little in the truck, but went down for a three and a half hour nap when we got home! My poor baby was plum out of energy!

When he woke up, he was more than ready for a snack. We tried Jello. Nope. Various drinks. Nope. He was refusing pretty much everything. He finally asked to get down and motioned to go outside. He played for a few minutes before signing for food. We offered drinks and kept trying to play, but he was falling asleep in his swing and running out of steam. 

Toast!

We caved. Toast and rice cakes for everyone (I felt the “Toaster” filter was appropriate)! He’s supposed to be on a BRAT (bananas, rice, applesauce, and toast) diet for a day or two, depending on how his hiney is looking. So far, I’m thinking we’ll be easing back into a regular diet by tomorrow’s breakfast.

Bananas!

He had never been so glad to see a banana as he was this morning. He ate two bananas, two pieces of toast, and two Baby Mum-Mums–and he was still hungry! Wow, that sounds like a page straight out of The Very Hungry Caterpillar.

It’s Friday, Friday!

Most of my brain still works in teacher mode. I always made Fridays a big deal in the classroom. We had Fun Friday and Friday Fun Dance, among other things. Now, we have Playnastics on Friday to set it apart from the rest of the week. 

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This boy loves his time at the gym! He likes to hoard a few toys, and, last week, he headed to uncharted lands: 



The trampoline! My sweet boy was lovin’ the trampoline. I can’t even count how many times he wobbled down that trampoline track. He would climb the stairs by himself, but then I’d help him stand up. As much as he bounces in his bed each morning, I can’t believe he didn’t try to jump some.


At the end of Playnastics, even after the bubbles, we got to use the parachute! Each age group gets a chance to “pop the bubbles” on the parachute. He loved it–until he saw the trampoline was unoccupied and toddled back over there!

Does it always look this way?

I’ve had many, many people walk through the door of our home and ask this very question, “Does it always look this way?” Sometimes it’s, “Is your house always this clean?” It’s rare, though, that someone comes by for an impromptu or mid-week visit and doesn’t ask about the state of our home. 

The answer, by and large, is yes. Yes, it usually looks this way. Yes, it’s usually tidy (clean and tidy are very different things). Yes, it’s relatively easy to keep it this way. But, most importantly, we are able to live and love here without walking on pins and needles for it to be perfect! 

A few simple principles will go a long way. 

Make a walk-through part of your nightly habit: 

A what? A walk-through. This was the biggest step for me. This turned it all around. Each night, we (yes, we, Mr. Gray helps with this) go through and get everything back in its place, or very close to it. Toys, books, dishes, computers, art supplies, whatever it is, it gets put away. If Mr. Gray is working on a painting or project, he leaves them like they are when he gets to a good stopping point, but they are contained and approximately where they belong. Dishes don’t get left in the sink, clothes don’t get left on the floor, pillows on the couch are straightened, or whatever it may be. This takes a total time of about ten minutes–maybe (it wouldn’t top fifteen, even without Mr. Gray’s help). Going to bed with a tidy house lets me start fresh each morning. Clean slate.

Clutter:

Get rid of it! If you have even one area that you allow to be cluttered, it will become toxic and take up more space over time. You do not need every back issue of whatever-magazine-is-your-go-to. Tear out the important pages, stick them in a file, and then recycle, re-gift, re-purpose, or otherwise dispose of the bulk of the magazine. Clutter will always make your house look messier. The more of it you have, the harder it is for your home to look tidy. 

Have a plan: 

We have a toddling one year old and a dog with almost as many toys. Our living room looks a lot like a mobile one year old and his dog lives here. I’m okay with that. I do not follow Baby Gray around picking things up behind him. Rather, the living room is pretty much a free for all (as far as playing and toys are concerned) throughout the day. It is where he spends the bulk of his time. We clean up the living room at the end of the day when we are winding down for his bed time.

Toy Photo

Shelf with Toys

However, he has specific toys for each room (and storage in each space) to keep from stringing toys all over the house each day. If we play in his room, he plays with those toys, and we clean up when we leave. I sing the same clean up song, and he helps (yes, really) me put the toys away before we leave the room. Same goes for our bedroom. He has a box of toys that stays in my closet. He gets it out when I open my closet, plays, and then helps me clean up when we are done in the bedroom.

Being organized helps with your planning. If everything has a place (because you don’t have clutter anymore, remember?) then your plan mostly involves which rooms need to be picked up when. How often do you want to follow your toddler (teen, spouse, tween) around asking him or her to put things away? Which battles are worth fighting?  

Let your kids help: 

As I said above, Baby Gray already helps put things away. When I start singing the clean up song, he brings me toys to put away (sometimes he gets side tracked, he’s one, but he is mostly helpful during clean up time). When we take off his clothes for dinner and bath time, he puts them in the laundry hamper. He thinks that is the most fun ever! Start your kiddos early, and you won’t have to retrain them later.

Clean as you cook: 

I can’t stress this enough. If you rinse the dishes as you cook and put things away as you go, you do not need a cleaning crew to clean up after dinner. Most evenings when I serve dinner, all that is out are the dishes we are eating from and the food on the stove. Everything else has already been taken care of. That way, all you have to do after you eat is wash a few things, store the leftovers, and clean the counters. Easy peasy! 

Don’t expect perfection: 

Let me tell you how long it took me to get to this conclusion: forever. Things don’t have to be perfect. Look at my italicized words above: mostly, approximately, etc. Those are great words. If things are just about where they need to be, it takes seconds to finish it up when it’s really time to take things further than tidy. 

Live there: 

If you want your  home to be warm, welcoming, inviting, and full of joy for the Lord, live there! He lives there, too! Don’t worry if it doesn’t look like a home in a magazine–people don’t live in those homes! Sometimes they’re not even homes, they’re sets, staged for photos! Do not be discouraged. Live there, have fun there, experience joy there.

Happy Halloween, Peeps!

A few weeks ago, I tweeted that I couldn’t find Halloween Peeps anywhere. I had looked at a few stores to no avail, and as a wandered Target’s Halloween aisles, I was having no luck. I asked an associate, and he said hadn’t seen them, either. At Target or else where. About that time, I found a stray package of pumpkin Peeps and began my hunt.

Peeps

Finally, there they were! Please don’t confuse yourselves, I was not looking for the Peeps to eat. Gag. I was looking for them to make one of my favorite Halloween decorations. 

Peeps

This is super simple, but oh-so-cute!  

Just take the Peeps and put them around the outside of your clear dish, facing outward. Fill the center with candy corn, and ta-da!  

In the past, I have also used my trifle bowl for this edible treat.


However, it was already full of gourds when I started on the Peeps! 

A Fair Day

 
I’m pretty sure this little town has more parades than any other little town around! Last week, the county fair took place, so, naturally, there was also a parade.

Parade 2

Baby Gray and I posted up with the Fix-Its again. See you guys at the Holiday Stroll parade? 

Parade

Even though this parade took place in October, it was still almost as hot as the Fourth of July parade. It probably didn’t help that we were sitting on a blanket on the street with all the kiddos. I love going to community events with the Fix-Its because they know tons of people and can fill me in on what people are doing and representing. 
Baby Gray was hilarious when the horses went by; he tried to move his feet to their rhythm and match the clopping noise. Usually, he clicks his tongue to mimic the noise. He’s quite the little parrot! He waved as people went by and watching intently as each float made its way down the street. His alertness has definitely increased since the last parade!

Oddly enough, the city doesn’t close the street for the parade until immediately before it gets to that portion of the roadway. We couldn’t spread our blanket until right before the flags came by bearing the colors to signal the start of the parade. It was pretty strange–and different from in July. They had things blocked off much earlier then. Obviously, I’m no parade hand; my hometown only had one a year. If we’re going to live here, I guess I better become one!


How Many Aggies…

… does it take to rig up a napping boy? 

Saturday was a long, eventful day for Baby Gray. We drove up Saturday morning for the 11:00 game. We stopped to pick up T and L on the way. With all the excitement, Baby Gray didn’t sleep in the truck. At all. 

We tailgated a bit and headed to the field. When we got to our seats, they were right in the blazin’ sun. I decided against staying in the stadium with Baby Gray and headed to the Alumni Center with him. He had a ball running around the room, playing, and being the center of everyone’s attention. 

A little after the second half began, he started to fade (remember that sleeping he chose to forgo in the truck?). Rather than subject all the others to my little sleepy head, I headed to meet some of the others at tailgate. 

Stroller

About half-way back, this is what I saw. He finally decided to give it up as we strolled back.

When I got him back to the tailgate, he looked super uncomfortable sitting up in the stroller (we take the cheap stroller to the games, just in case–so no reclining seat). I tried to lay the stroller down, but it inverted him too much. 

Aggie Nap

Luckily, KB had her thinking cap on! Twins means two of everything–even Bumbos! We propped that sleeping boy right up, and he slept for a pretty good while. 

More Nap

Nap

So, how many Aggies does it take to rig up a napping boy? Four. Two mamas doing the riggin’ and two sweet twins to share their Bumbos!

Is There an App for That?

We were at Dr. C’s house a few weekends ago, yes I’ve mentioned it previously, but my photos were scattered for some reason, watching the game. In the midst of the kids playing and Cheeto-eating, Mrs. Doc C made some queso. It was on the coffee table, near where the kids were playing. 

At some point, Baby Gray ended up with Mr. Gray’s phone. As I was trying to keep Baby Gray’s hands from the heat of the pan the queso was in, he dropped the phone right in! I laughed, showed everyone, and made for the kitchen like I was going to get straight to cleaning. Ha! I took a photo first, of course! The phone made it out mostly unscathed–the speakers are a little cheesy, but it’s still functional.


I’ll Have What She’s Having

Embarrasingly long ago, Cadillac MaMa shared I’ll Have What She’s Having by Bobbie Houston with me. When I read an actual hard copy of a book, it takes me much longer than with an electronic copy (as a lover of books, reading, etc. this makes me really sad that convenience has taken over my reading habits). It took me a while to get into this book, even though it was actually a pretty quick read. However, the last few days, about the last half of the book, I just couldn’t read fast enough.

I loved the perspectives presented in the book. Even more, I loved that Cadillac MaMa is invested in the women at Revolution. I love that I have such a mentor and Proverbs 31 woman that I can go to in my journey for real life examples. All the while I was reading, I felt the Lord nudging me toward another friend that I should pass the book along to. I can’t wait to share!

So many times as I read, I found myself thinking, “Yes! That’s it! That’s exactly how I want to live my life.” One section talks about the Word being the ultimate way to be trained, with good, godly friends being next. Absolutely! When your friends are living the type of life you’re striving to live, it’s hard to fail–you’re surrounded by women (couples if they’re you’re married friends) following the same Guidebook as your own family. You’re all headed in the same direction. Mr. Gray and I hungered for this until we found our Heart Group. We developed deep, lasting friendships with people in a matter of months because they were friendships ordained by the Lord. They were friendships put in place by the Lord to grow our marriage, to grow me as a wife and mother.

A few years later, we met the people at Revolution with the same results. The families we have met have become fast friends due to the timing and placement of the Lord. He is good and faithful all the time. The same section of the book says that if you don’t have these types of friends, you should pray them in. Wow! Just wow. I wouldn’t have thought to word it that way, but how incredibly true is that? When you need something, you should pray for it. Why wouldn’t it be the same when you need someone?

As I finished the book, I felt challenged. Not in a bad way at all. In a great way; I felt challenged to be more purposeful. I felt challenged to do more for those around me, to widen my reach, His reach. I have said before that writing is my outlet for sharing the Lord’s blessings in our life. I share the little silly details that make up the great big picture He is putting together for us. Do I fall short? Constantly. That’s what these wonderful women I have been surrounded by are for (not solely, of course); they help me and encourage me to get back on the right track! Falling short is part of the testimony; it helps me to share God’s love, mercy, and grace. Falling short isn’t the whole testimony, though, because God has bigger and better plans for me than that!