CusTOMS

My friend danseusean recently decided she wanted some TOMS. She wasn’t sure what she wanted, and after we talked a while, we decided Mr. Gray should paint her some. Of course, if they were going to be custom, she wanted LIFE TOMS.

TOMS

Modeled after the LIFE tape from Bound4LIFE, Mr. Gray created these. 
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It looks like LIFE tape on each toe! 
Photo Disclaimer: Please excuse all the glare; it was night time and I had to use the fill flash. Lazy photography at its finest. Quite the injustice to Mr. Gray’s talents.

Between You & Me

A while back, Mr. Gray and I started this book. It’s a joint journal of sorts. We write notes in it to each other and leave it to be found. You don’t have to respond right away; in fact, there are no strings attached. It’s just another way to communicate. 

I love written notes, texts, emails, and cards. I keep them all. Mr. Gray isn’t as big on writing as I am on reading, so this makes it quicker and easier for him. It helps him work in my love language. We started doing this in 2008, and I have loved it. It’s been a great addition to our communication skills!

Confession of a Fightin’ Texas Aggie

Just a little something to get off my chest–especially after all my ranting about t-shirt fans the past couple of weeks.

When I was a freshman in college, attending Texas State, I went to a t.u. game with Auntie Heather. You’ll never believe what I wore: a t.u. shirt, burnt orange and everything! We were sitting in her uncle & aunt’s suite at the game. They’re Horns from way back. In my defense, I wasn’t an Aggie at the time. To my demise, that made me a t-shirt fan. 
People have asked me why I get so fired up about t-shirt fans. It’s an earned thing, the trash talk. If you went to Texas, I have no problem engaging in a little quibble with you about our opposing teams. If you went to UTSA, UT-Pan Am, any other UT-where evers, or nowhere at all, that’s not the same thing! Those schools have their own mascot, their own traditions, and their own rivals. It’s the same for A&M schools. My undergrad is from A&M-Kingsville; I was not an Aggie then. I was a Javelina; I didn’t get an Aggie ring or know what Muster was. I wasn’t an Aggie until I attended A&M. It’s trivial to some, I understand. When you attend a school that makes you proud, it’s hard to stand by and let people talk bad about it. It’s like talking bad about my mom–don’t do it.


Established 1921

Yesterday was GM’s (my grandmother, not the corporation) 90th birthday. To celebrate, we had a little get together mid-day Saturday. 

We ate lunch at T-Paw’s local lunch spot, the same lunch spot GD dined for many, many years. As a matter of fact, T-Paw still sits at GD’s table, too. We all joke that we know where to go if we want lunch. Be there, or be square. 11:30 on the dot. T-Paw requested roast; it’s always delicious, and Saturday was no exception! 

Everyone ate and talked until it was time to head to GM’s for family photos, cake, and some time to catch up. 
We took some family photos with Jocelyn Sexton Creative Services before enjoying some of T-Paw’s cake (GM’s favorite) along with punch, nuts, and coffee. We took the easy route with only the nine and the zero lit for GM to blow out, rather than a whopping 90 candles–that might have been a challenge!

After devouring their cake, Mr. Mischief and WBT headed to the toy closets. L was helping them sort through the toys and with each thing they pulled out, we almost all had a memory to share (it was just the four of us in there at the time). We have been playing with the same toys from the same closet since I was little (I think since Uncle J and Uncle W were little as well). It’s so cool to have so many generations all cherish the same things as part of their childhood. Ultimately, the boys decided on the ball shooter toy (I have no idea what it’s actually called; it’s a basket with a bulb on the bottom that shoots balls) and headed outside. 

I have been wanting to get Baby Gray on this little riding toy for quite some while now. It’s another toy we all remember playing on. Mr. Mischief (who, by the way, has sort of outgrown the name) loved pushing him around. He really wanted Baby Gray to cooperate on his foot placement so pushing would be a little easier, but Baby Gray wasn’t quite able to understand. 

Mr. Gray got it on some playing in the yard, too. And, no, you’re not dreaming, we’re short a nephew in these photos. T had somewhere to be after lunch. WBT loved playing with the older boys while Mr. Mischief was with Baby Gray. 

He got in on some Baby Gray action, though, too. Aunt K was a nervous wreck while her boys toted Baby Gray up and down the ramp. I just snapped away–you can see Annie watching closely in the top of this photo, too. My worries weren’t necessary.


I love watching all the boys play. T and L always play so well with the younger ones when they’re around. We’re so blessed to have such great boys around here! 

GM, Cousin E, and Uncle J were all watching the festivities in the yard and up and down the ramp. GM hasn’t had so much action at her house in quite some while. It was quite the change for her usually quite home.


Once Baby Gray was done riding, Mr. Mischief had a few trips down the ramp of his own! In the progression of these photos when I uploaded, you can see him swerving down the ramp until he ends in a crash with missing boots! Mr. Mischief still fits! 

Happy, happy birthday, GM! We wish you many more!


Because no party is complete without a recipe…

My aunt asked me several weeks ago if I would be willing to make punch for the occasion. I obliged, but quickly realized that I didn’t have a punch recipe or really anywhere to start; we don’t do much punch anymore. I found a recipe that looked similar to the most recent punch I had at a shower and went for it. It got good reviews. It was super simple!

Orange Sherbet Punch 
1 liter ginger ale, chilled
1.5 cups Sprite, chilled
1.5 cups orange soda, chilled
23 ounces pineapple juice, chilled
1 quart orange sherbet
  • Pour liquids into punch bowl
  • Stir (I may or may not have forgotten this step) 
  • Drop balls of sherbet into punch
  • Serve and enjoy 
Make the punch right before you need it; it starts to lose the fizz after it sits out for very long.

Leaving Our Mark

Forever ago, I posted about the beginning of our deck project. Then I moved on with my life, and so did you. The problem lies in the fact that I love these photos of Baby Gray’s feet in the concrete, but I still don’t really have any good photos of the actual deck (which has been completed for some while now). 
You see, when Mr. Gray and Pops started securing posts in the ground, Pops reminded Mr. Gray that we needed to leave our mark for [good luck, prosperity, or something]. I don’t remember the actual reasoning, but I love that our first home will have our mark from now on, even if we don’t live here. 

So Mr. Gray carefully maneuvered Baby Gray’s feet around in the concrete to get a great set of footprints to go along with our deck. So now we’ll have [good luck, prosperity, or something] to go with our home full of love and laughter. 

Baby Gray wasn’t too sure about the whole squishy concrete thing, but I can guarantee he loved having the cool water on his tootsies that hot day! The kid loves water! Loves. I’m glad he got to be part of the deck building process. Strap a tool belt on that boy!



I’m a Big Kid Now

Baby Gray was hangin’ with the big kids at Dr. C’s last weekend when we watched the game. 

Shooby and Little C were enjoying some Cheetos at the picnic table, and he wanted to join in (mostly, eating was involved; he wanted to eat). He sat like such a big boy and ate his Cheetos, which are quite a special treat; I don’t just go around handing those out. 

Eventually he remembered that he didn’t want to be a big boy as much as he wanted to dump the Cheetos out and throw the cup. So he did. Shooby and Little C followed suit–triple Cheetos for Baby Gray!

He must have decided he had too many; he doesn’t share food too often. What a sweet boy! 


Building Immunity

I always laugh when Baby Gray puts stuff in his mouth or eats something that’s not meant to be eaten. My mantra has become we stay at home, he’s got to build that immune system somehow. We went on a couple of immune-boosting adventures this week: Lapsit at the public library and the children’s museum. 

He loved watching the other children and dancing to the songs we sang. The whole program was really well done; I enjoyed it. At the end, they have a free play time with tons of toys in a toy bucket to choose from. He was all over that! I hope we can go back soon, our schedule hasn’t really allowed us to make it until now. 

The children’s museum was so much fun! I hope we get a membership for Christmas (cough, cough, nudge) this year. Baby Gray loved camping section; he checked out all the dishes and tried to row in the kayak. Little C sang Row, Row, Row Your Boat for him while he kayaked.

Prior to the camping section, he tried to play in the grocery store area, but he got too upset about the graham crackers in the snack aisle. Try to explain to a one year old that the exact box you have at home doesn’t really have graham crackers in it. The positive side? He can “read” environmental print! 

This little girl in the ambulance was hilarious. Baby Gray was driving, minding his own business, and she came over to take over. He calmly stepped back and let her do her thing. He is his father’s child.

He did get to drive the ambulance with Little C on the way to the rocket ship, though. He turned on the flashing lights and helped she and her baby get safely to the hospital. 

The children’s museum has no shortage of buttons to press–that was right up Baby Gray’s alley! He really enjoyed the control panel in the rocket. Little C’s baby took a trip to space, too! 
We ventured off to the ranch while Little C was playing somewhere else. Baby Gray had a nice dinner full of plate throwing and fake ice cream while we were there. 

When we found Little C, she was being built into a house; she decided she wanted Baby Gray to get inside instead. He wasn’t too fond of the idea, but Little C had a blast helping Mrs. Doc C and I build around him. Baby Gray had a blast breaking out!

Baby Gray floated around, finding books and things to look at while we were there. He did a great job directing himself to what he was interested in and playing for as long as his interest held. I enjoyed watching his little brain go to work; he picked up familiar objects and used them for their appropriate purpose in several different instances. The most disgusting was the cup he continued to “drink” out of. Hey, immunity, right? 

My favorite part was the light up dance floor. It wasn’t working right when we got to it, but it made for some pretty cute photos. 
Little C is such a great friend to Baby Gray, she waits for him and helps him with things. I can’t wait for Littlest C to be ready to join in their fun! We always enjoy our playdates with them.

Pick a Peck of Pumpkins

One of my favorite things is decorating our home for Fall. We have a pumpkin patch right up the street from our house, and as soon as they get their pumpkins, I’m ready to bring one some home. Mrs. Fix-It’s church hosts the pumpkin patch, and she mentioned that they needed cookies for the patch. 

So, Saturday morning, Annie and I walked Baby Gray and the cookies down to the patch. He watched them unload the pumpkins and pass them from person to person. Mr. Fix-It was driving a little forklift with pumpkins on a pallet, and Baby Gray loved that. 

He felt several different textures and had his photo taken by the local paper (they didn’t put it in the article, though). 

We didn’t stay long since they weren’t done unloading, but I new we’d be back soon. 



We headed back to the pumpkin patch Monday evening. The weather was gorgeous, just perfect for pumpkin picking! Baby Gray rode down in his wagon, but he needed to check things out when we arrived. He pointed, touched, and grunted the whole way through the patch. Mr. Gray had to hurry him up a few times. 


I always love to pick out mini pumpkins for centerpieces in the house, so we let him down to check them out. He picked some and put them in the wagon for us. 


We loaded him up with the minis to ride over to the larger pumpkins for the porch. I always like the colored, warty, beat-up looking pumpkins, while Mr. Gray likes the more symmetrical, round, orange pumpkins. Usually, I want three pumpkins, two short and one tall and skinny. 

We picked three more round, but colorful and warty pumpkins and stuck them in with Baby Gray.

Mr. Gray rolled all our loot over to the checkout where I got distracted by the gourds–another of my favorites for in the house! I got a few, we stuck them in the wagon, and off we went!


Baby Gray didn’t know what to think about his wagon load for the trip home! He rode all the way home with his pumpkin brochures, the gourds, and the pumpkins. I was pretty impressed; especially since one of his favorite things to do is throw things out of the wagon!


In past years, our front porch pumpkins have had the “furniture store effect” going on–we get them home and they’re much larger than we thought! This year, we had exactly the opposite! Maybe one year we’ll find pumpkins that are just right. (Please excuse our lawn; it wasn’t photo-ready.)



I love my trifle dish as a centerpiece–I can fill it with anything! And the mega-Mason jar I have is one of my favorite things we have at home. It’s so fun and funky, with a little classic twist. 

What are your favorite fall decorations?

Location, Location, Location

This weekend, the Ags played in Dallas. We’ve made the trip to Jerryworld before, but opted out this year. 

The scene was definitely different, but Mr. Gray and Dr. C were way into the game, regardless of setting. The kids had a blast–toys were all over the place! Baby Gray made it home with an activity table, and he’s LOVIN’ it! I’m certainly not giving up Kyle Field, but this was a fun change of pace.

It’s My Party

Today I had a party. No invite? Sorry. It was a party of one. For as many great parties as I’ve planned, this one sucked. I had myself a little pity party today.

I know what set it in motion, but it took me a while to shake it. My grandma said once, “It’s nice to have an invitation to turn down.” I don’t think I got what she meant when she said it, but I got it today. While the situations aren’t exactly the same, the meaning rings true.
People assume we can’t, or won’t, do things because of Baby Gray. Instead of inviting us anyway and at least letting us know they thought about us and wanted us included, they just don’t invite us. We didn’t stop having friends or start wanting to be home-bodies when Baby Gray came along. We have great baby-sitters; they love our son and care for him well. We also have an exceptional child; he can go and do quite a lot. Unless we’re already booked, there is very little reason we wouldn’t love to join you. (Please note: I’m speaking only for myself here, even though I’m including Mr. Gray with my terms; he did not have a pity party today, or ever.) 
My party is over now, and I don’t plan to host another. Sorry I didn’t invite you; this is one I wish I would have missed out on myself.