Too Much of a Good Thing

… is still too much. While I tend to be an extremist and perfectionist in a few areas, I really, honestly believe that in most aspects, balance and moderation is the way to go, even the areas I don’t always practice it myself
Craving a piece of cake? Eat a bite or two. Want to go shopping? Buy yourself something inexpensive and practical–aside from diapers or groceries. The more balance you have, the less likely you are to go crazy when you do get to “splurge” a little. Why do you think Dave Ramsey works? He teaches practical, balanced steps that are do-able. He offers the give some, save some, and spend some model (it’s Biblical; it’s been around a while). Same with Weight Watchers; it teaches you how to eat through portion control and balance. If you want to save up some points, you can eat some cake. That’s real life–give a little, take a little.

Prime Rib

I have trouble getting behind an all or nothing mentality–especially when it has one-sided preaching along with it. I like to see both sides, weigh my options, and make an educated decision from there. Live within your means; eat to live. Don’t be controlled and consumed by things of this world. 

A note: I am not in any way affiliated with Dave Ramsey or Weight Watchers.

If You’re Not First

… you’re last. Dead last. 

Wow. Yesterday was a major learning experience. Here are just a few tidbits:
  1. Not all bikes are created equal
  2. Cycling on the shoulder of the highway is bumpy–share the road! 
  3. Duathletes (most of whom are actually triathletes) are super fit
  4. Biking 15 miles through your neighborhood in no way prepares you for a 14 mile scenic route
  5.  Knowing how to work your bike is key
For some reason, I thought running a 5K, biking 14 miles, and then finishing up with another 5K would be easier than running a half marathon. At the worst, I thought it would be comparable. Ha! Think again. 

Mr. Gray stayed home to let Baby Gray sleep since the event was in town. He helped me load the bike and took a photo or two before I headed out.

Bike

Immediately upon arrival, I knew I was way out of my league. The bikes and equipment these folks had was very intimidating. Everyone was helpful and answered my questions, though–I had no idea what I was doing! 

Bike

I ran a great 5K the first go ’round. I beat my best time by several minutes. I even broke a 10 minute mile–FINALLY! Despite my personal success, people were leaving me in the dust. I got to my bike and headed out; I was honestly feeling like I could pretty much stop then. I quickly realized I didn’t have a good working knowledge of how to optimally work my bike and its gears. I had biked 15 miles earlier in the week, but it was not THAT KIND of 15 miles. Not to mention the fact that less than a mile into the bike portion, I passed the lead guy headed back toward the finish.

The most disheartening moment of the race was when I realized the “last car” was right behind me. Yep, I was dead last. The other downfall to not knowing how much about the bike is that I had no idea how to go faster. I couldn’t actually “race” at all. So many times I was right behind people, but I couldn’t speed up. I cruised into the transition area with another lady, but I knew she was part of a relay. The runner after her would be fresh (his wife ran the first leg and he was running the last). There was nothing fresh about me at that point!

Mr. Gray and Baby Gray were at the dismount line, so I hopped off my bike and left it for Mr. Gray to take care of. In all my haste, I forgot to take my helmet off! AHH! Thankfully a guy in the transition area stopped me and grabbed it. Oops!

Bike

Bike

Luckily, I’m good at pushing myself. I was able to convince myself it was only three more miles and I should keep going. I felt like I was at a total standstill. The run was set up in two loops, so as I came up to the end of the first loop, I seriously contemplated stopping. I kept my internal yelling up long enough to make the turn and go on. 

Bike

Bike

At that point, I knew I could do it, but my pride was trying to get the best of me. I didn’t want to be last. I didn’t want to be struggling to finish. 

Bike

I crossed the finish line at 2:30:41, according to my timer. Notice the chip timer is off as I cross. 

Bike

People were cheering me on as I crossed, which I appreciated. Most of the people who were at the end were also people I had talked to prior to the race; they knew this was my first time trying it. While I absolutely hated to be last, I was pretty proud that I finished. It’s definitely the toughest thing I’ve ever done. 

Bike

Will I ever compete in another one? Yesterday, my answer was never (actually, according to my Twitter feed immediately after, it was NEVER NEVER NEVER). Last night, I looked back at my times per mile over the whole race. Even after a bike ride I thought would kill me on a bike that was not at all designed for what I was doing, my second 5K time was good (for me, anyway). I’m tougher than I think I am. With better biking equipment and knowledge, I would consider doing it again. For now, though, I’ll just stick Baby Gray’s seat back on my mama bike, and we’ll cruise around the neighborhood. 

BIke

In related news, I ordered lunch in the Schlotzsky’s drive thru with a donut in my hand yesterday. A new low? Maybe.

Unsolved Mysteries

Here’s the case I present to you: 
Thursday morning, we were going about our usual routine when I heard a CRASH! and a WAIL! I quickly headed toward the living room (I had stepped into our bedroom) and met Baby Gray in the doorway; he was crying and reaching for me. I started surveying the room to try and figure out what happened. As I pick him up, I notice he’s sopping wet. 
Exhibit A: 

Water

That’s a terrible iPhone photo of the fourth kind, but it’s a photo of his sippy cup, which by its disassembled state, was obviously the CRASH! I heard. The glare-filled areas of the photo are water. 
Exhibit B:

Water

This is my son, covered from head to toe, front and back, in water. He’s crying, a hurt, wailing cry. No blood, no bruises, no missing teeth, just a few tears.

Conclusion: 

While we can neither confirm nor deny this hypothesis, the best information we have asserts that Baby Gray threw the sippy cup, causing the CRASH! to ring through the house. The cup opened, causing Exhibit A. Baby Gray slipped in the water displayed in Exhibit A, causing the WAIL! Presumably, Baby Gray slipped and fell on his back and rolled to his stomach to stand up, causing Exhibit B.

If you have any information regarding this case, please disregard. We’ve recovered.

Country Folk Can Survive

Baby Gray has not had the luxury (read: we don’t have enough hours in a day) to spend as much time in the country as Mr. Gray and I would really like. Luckily, he got a taste of being a country kid this weekend at T & L’s stock show. Both boys show hogs, so we set off Saturday morning to be there. 

Right off the bat, he wasn’t having anything to do with his boots, so he wore his TOMS instead. He wasn’t too sure what to think when we first arrived. Once he figured out that the dirt and dust was part of the experience, though, he was sold. 

Hogs

Hogs

Hogs

He stationed himself on the ledge of the show barn with his animal crackers and loved it. He could hide behind Miss Mollie’s stroller, practice the step on and off the ledge, and see all the passers by. Toward the end of the morning, he even got a bit interested in what was going on in the show ring. 

Hogs

Hogs

Maybe there was an incident in which his sippy cup ended up in the show ring. Maybe not. He definitely didn’t have his best morning, but once he settled in, he had fun.

Jumping Bean

We’ve been to The Jumpy Place several times. Baby Gray loves it. The irony? He doesn’t like the bounce houses. More irony? The trampoline is his favorite on his gym days. He just plays in all the kitchens and playscapes. Saturday, we went to meet Aunt Cookie, and he finally jumped! 


He got in several times and had a blast! We were so proud of him for trying it! We had a wonderful visit with Aunt Cookie and shut The Jumpy Place down! I was pleasantly surprised at the lack of a crowd at the Kyle location; it was a very nice change from the chaos that is sometimes present in New Braunfels.

13.1 and Done!

Disclaimer: This is a long and totally self-centered post. Sorry.

Packet

Saturday’s packet pick up was the beginning of the sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach. I was pretty sure I was going to puke just thinking about running 13.1 miles the next morning. Mr. Gray did his best to pump me up, and the majority of me knew I was ready and would be fine. We were off to see Aunt Cookie for the evening, so that was a good distraction. 

On our way home, the encouraging texts started. Have I mentioned I have the best friends and family? 

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We ate a late dinner and headed to bed plenty early. I did the math over and over to make sure my goal time was attainable. I even wrote it in the fog on the shower door. I was determined to come in under 2:45. I didn’t sleep well; I was nervous and antsy all night. I woke up right on time, though. We were out the door! 

Get Goin'

I did a stretch or two (I usually just run cold) and headed to the start line. My training pace had been about 12:30 (I never claimed to be fast), so I situated myself near the back of the starting line. 

Right out of the gate, God sent me a pace-coach of a gift named Nicole. Yep. Totally a God thing. Our strides synced, we shared stories and helped each other pass the time. It was the craziest thing. She didn’t have a goal time, but she was more than helpful in helping me achieve mine. 

Mr. Gray and Baby Gray were at the bottom of the last hill when Nicole and I topped it. 

First Shot

Running In

Running In

J, Mal, and Ella Bella were around the corner at the finish. 

Dorroughs

Ella Bella

We turned the final corner and crossed the finish line just shy of 2:33! I started my arm coach as I crossed the starting line since I was to the back, but I forgot to stop it. Oops! Regardless, I came in under my goal time! Yay! I also kept my two standing goals: no walking and no finishing last!

Finish!

Finish!

Finished!

Somehow I didn’t notice my arm vibrating like crazy, but I was met with tons more texts filled with encouragement once I checked my phone. 

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Mr. Gray got lots of great photos of me stretching and looking super brain dead; while they’re not too lovely, they pretty much captured the moments following the race. 

Stretching

Dazed

Once I got it together, all I knew was that I wanted to eat, and that Mal didn’t make that sign by herself (have you seen her handwriting?).

Mal

I don’t normally like Cracker Barrel, but it was close and the wait wasn’t too long, so it worked for me. I loaded up on a ginormous plate of food before we headed home. 

I did a quick survey for battle wounds, but all I could find was a couple of black toes. 

 Toe

I’ll take it! 

I felt pretty good when I got up this morning, but just to be sure I headed for a massage to ward off the second-day soreness that might wreak havoc on my Tuesday.

Then just to be sure I completed the whole half-marathon process, I donned the highlighter green Moe’s Better Half Marathon shirt today. Yep. I’m that girl. 

Shirt

Will I run another one? I don’t know. I’m super impressed with myself after yesterday, though. I’d hate to ruin that.

Life As We Knew It

I don’t think I realized when I set out to run a half marathon that it would be such a change for our entire family unit. It wasn’t just about me getting out and logging the miles. Baby Gray would go from spending about an hour a week in the jogger to spending about an hour a day strapped in tight. He would have to eat breakfast in our bedroom while I shower and get dressed after a run (see photo, but excuse Mr. Gray’s closet). Mr. Gray and I would miss family time many evenings so I could hit the pavement when it was too cold or wet to have Baby Gray out before Mr. Gray got home. Saturday mornings would no longer family be PJ time; I get up at daylight to get back and do family breakfast after my long runs. My running quit being part of the fringe benefits and took center stage over the past six weeks. 
Run Life

It’s been an interesting transformation. I like that my day now focuses on when I will get a run in. I’m not quite sure how I feel about the fact that the first words out of my son’s mouth each morning are waffle and stroller. He knows. I get him up, we get a clean diaper, and grab him a waffle for the road–PJs and all! Granted, he doesn’t dislike this routine, I’m just not sure I love that he eats breakfast in his stroller each morning.

After Sunday, our focus can move to a more balanced approach. Running will continue, but not with such urgency. Once the six-week mark approached, I got pretty nervous about being ready. I am ready, though. I’m still slow, but I’ve got endurance. I can finish. I can even finish before they start packing everything up–I’m not that slow! 13.1, here I come!

Lost & Found

It’s no secret I have a bit of a sweet tooth. That’s probably putting it mildly. Regardless, I am quite thankful for the ol’ metabolism!

Each year when the Easter candy hits the shelves, I scour the aisles for the Cadbury Chocolate Creme Eggs. Not the yucky white ones, not the caramel or the orange, the chocolate. It’s been several Easters since they made an appearance. Tuesday, though, I found them! 

Eggs

In the true spirit of self-restraint, I only bought one box for now. Ah, glorious, glorious Easter goodness.

What’s Black and White and Cute All Over?

Baby Gray has his first ring bearer gig coming up this June. Mr. Gray and I have been devising a plan for how we can get him to cooperate in terms of actually making his way down the aisle. We think we’re going to be pretty successful!

I have also been getting super excited about how cute he is going to be in his wedding duds. I wasn’t exactly sure what the happy couple had in mind, but I knew it would be cute! Yesterday, I headed to Sam’s to get some things for church. As I walked down the center aisle, some little boys’ formal wear caught my eye. I called DD to see what they were thinking as far as Baby Gray’s attire. Come to find out, they had just looked at tuxes and such, and to rent a tux for Baby Gray was going to cost the same as renting an adult tux! To purchase it was seventy-five dollars. Seriously? The ones at Sam’s were in the $25.00 to $35.00 range. Much better! 

I went through all the suits and tuxes they had available (they had a surprisingly good selection), sent photos to DD of the ones I thought might work, and checked to make sure they had the size we needed in the ones we might want. 
After DD and I decided on the perfect one, I noticed it didn’t have pants. I found another set, it didn’t have a bow tie. I took all the mismatched pieces to the register with me where they were kind enough to let me mix and match all the pieces to make a complete tux!

Tux
Baby Gray and I headed home with it! I can’t wait to see him all dressed up–he’s going to be such a looker!