Steer Clear

The sheer mention of Home Depot lights Baby Gray’s face up. You see, they have a race car shopping cart (or four) that we mistakenly allowed him to drive a month or so ago. It’s very similar to a cheer I remember from junior high, but more comical. We say, “Home Depot,” Baby Gray says, “Race car!” 

Race Car

He loves that thing! So much, in fact, that he cries when it’s time to go home. The first time, we just laughed it off and went home to find something else to play with. The second time, accompanied by repeats of “race car” until we actually got to Home Depot, was the same thing. 

This week, though, we had a plan! We would take him out of the race car and let him drive the “tractors” out in front of the store. We would move him to the car when he got finished.

Tractor

This idea pretty much failed miserably. He was more than disappointed when he realized we were leaving the tractors. Next time we’ll need a new plan of attack–like staying home!

Unusual Suspects

It’s not hard to figure out we like to eat. Mostly, I cook like my daddy–complete with butter, cream, and the works. Sometimes, though, I try to be a little more health conscious than that. Take, for example, this macaroni and cheese. 
Macaroni
It passed my family’s taste test with flying colors, but it’s not completely filled with my usual suspects. 

You will need: 
Whole wheat pasta (or, if you’ve got picky eaters, Barilla Pasta Plus sneaks past ’em pretty well)
Fresh spinach
Grated cheese (I use an HEB brand three cheese blend of cheddar, Fontina, and one other) 

Cottage cheese

Yogurt
Milk
Flour, for thickening 
  • Prepare pasta as directed on the package
  • Add spinach to boiling pasta water
  • Drain water from spinach and pasta
  • Stir in grated cheese (to taste) until melted 
  • Fold in cottage cheese until most of the curds are melted
  • Add yogurt and milk as needed to adjust taste
  • Thicken with flour, if needed 
  • Stir well and serve warm 
I don’t love leftovers, but this was delicious the following day.

Not a Cloud in Sight

We visited some friends and their new babies (yep, twins) yesterday evening. On the way home, we stopped to eat. While we were in line to order at the counter, Baby Gray talked to everyone in his path. He was pretty impressed with the cookie display case; it was a great way to pass the time while we waited. 

Several high fives, a fist bump, and a hand wash later, the lady in front of us was ordering. She turned to Baby Gray and asked him which cookie he wanted. “May I buy him a cookie?” she asked me. I was blown away. What a sweet gesture. Of course she could buy him a cookie!

Cookie

Despite the judgy (yeah, it’s a word) looks from a lady at the table behind us, we let him eat it first. He was happy as a clam, and I wasn’t planning on raining on that parade.

Who’s Your Daddy?

Baby Gray loves his daddy. He runs across the house when he hears the garage door open to signal Mr. Gray’s arrival. I love that Baby Gray has such an amazing role model to follow. 
It is such a joy them interact! I wish this photo captured Baby Gray’s facial expression more than it did. He is mirroring Mr. Gray’s face. They were having a blast while we ate lunch after church. 
Cheese
I am so blessed to have such a wonderful husband and son.

Dough, Boy!

If you’ve been hiding under a rock, you might be surprised to learn that I have a little huge sweet tooth. In the words of Mal before surfacing from under the rock, “I just didn’t think I could trust your dessert choices.”

Lately, I’m in a terrible habit of whipping up some safe-to-eat cookie dough and enjoying. I’ve tried it with chocolate chips, broken up Hershey bars, and M&Ms. Personally, I like the distinctive flavor of the Hershey bars best.

In case you’d like to add this terrible habit to your life, I’ll share what I’ve been using for my recipe. 

Cookie Dough


You will need: 
1/2 cup butter, softened
3/4 cup brown sugar, packed 
1 teaspoon vanilla 
1 cup flour 
1/8 cup water (more or less as needed)
1/2 cup chocolate chips, M&Ms, or other mix-in
  • Cream the butter and brown sugar together until smooth
  • Add the vanilla
  • Gradually add the flour until it is completely mixed
  • Add water to adjust consistency of the dough
  • Fold in the mix-in of choice
  • Enjoy!



Rockin’ Good Time

Before Baby Gray was born, Papa & his wife wanted to give us a rocking chair. At the time, we had a rocking recliner in Baby Gray’s room and didn’t have room for another. It was ugly, but it was comfy. We went with it

When Papa passed away, his wife wanted us to have his recliner. It was nicer than the one we had and still comfortable. Baby Gray loves it. I know how happy it would make Papa to see him in it. He loves to rock and read–with us or without us.

The Very Hungry Toddler

Baby Gray has embarked on the world of diiiiiiiip. Some nights, he eats more dip than dinner. Usually it looks like this when he’s done.

diiiiiip
 
After one such dinner this weekend, we took Baby Gray on a yogurt date. I’m pretty sure he would have been happier had I just filled his cup with at-aw instead of the rowurt (you know, strawberries instead of yogurt). He might be broken; he’s not usually big on ice cream, frozen yogurt, hotdogs, or other typical kid foods. He’ll eat ’em, but he can totally do without. I’ll take it. 
One thing he is big on? Wa-wa. Baby Gray loves water. He stood on the bridge admiring it, and then Mr. Gray put him on a big rock out in the water. It was like he had his own little island! 

Wa Wa

Water

Makes me excited for swimming lessons this year. I think he’s going to have a blast!

Homerun for Your Money

When baseball season rolls around, we try to make it to Kingsville to see WBT play. This year, Mr. Mischief is on a team, too. They played simultaneously, which was a bit of a challenge, but we got to see each of them hit a homerun (and earn a little cash from T-Paw for it)! 

Ready

At Bat

Unfortunately, I didn’t get a photo of Mr. Mischief; Baby Gray hadn’t quite settled in when we were at that field. Baby Gray was all over the place while we watched WBT–eating snacks, picking up trash, trying to turn on the water, and who knows what else! 

Dugout

Third
Snack

We headed to Young’s to eat after the game, and the boys had so much fun talking and playing together. 

Youngs

I asked for a repeat of our previous photo with the three of them outside Young’s, but Baby Gray wasn’t feelin’ it. He tried to run away, fell, and then cried through the photos.

Crying

More Crying

I sure miss those boys! We need to get down there more often.

Flyin’ High

I had to crack up when I saw this on Facebook: 

Jesus

Here’s why: 

Headphones

This is a photo of Baby Gray one of the earliest times we took him to Revolution. Not only does Revolution make you want to sing, it’s so loud babies need ear muffs! Babies are sure cute in ear muffs, though, like miniature airplane pilots.

It Works If You Work It

Tuesday, my dad celebrated his 31st AA birthday. That’s pretty huge. 

He’s been sober 31 years; I’ve been around not quite 28. I’ve never seen him take a drink. He and my brothers tell stories about those days, but I’ve never seen it first hand. I’m so grateful for that.

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When I was little, I had my own chair at the AA meetings. I don’t remember going on Mondays much, but on Friday nights, I was in my chair at the meeting. I remember so many little details about those meetings. I don’t remember any stories told or faces, really, but I remember the little things. I remember the way the tables were set up. I can see the way the coffee area was set up and the table on the side of the room where my dad’s brief case would sit until we returned everything to its place at the end of the meeting. I learned the Lord’s Prayer and the Serenity Prayer sitting in the Episcopal Parish Hall with my dad. I scoff at AA meetings on TV because they aren’t what I remember; of course, in real life, they’re all just like the ones I remember from 25+ years ago

Meetings were just part of what we did when I was growing up. We’d get there early, make coffee, set up, have the meeting, visit for a while, and head to Dairy Queen for dinner or a sundae–well, always a sundae. I remember it fondly, the way some people remember going to the beach.

The meetings, of course, aren’t the important part; they’re just the part I remember. The important part is that each day, one day at a time, for 31 years, my dad has overcome alcoholism. He’s helped many others get sober as well–both as a licensed counselor and as a friend and mentor outside of that.